Where Bliss Embraces Two

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Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Are They Faking It?

Before we start, I must clarify that the Men and Women mentioned below does not represent all, but majority of us.

When Men are courting Women, they are one of the best creatures you can find around. They are accommodating, thoughtful and forgiving. After a year (2 years if you are lucky), they gradually evolve. They become less of everything they used to be. Here are some illustrations which I am sure our Women comrades have experienced at some point in time:

Accommodating
Before
W: Dear, shall we go shopping this weekend?
M: Sure! (smiles and agrees willingly)

After
W: Dear, shall we go shopping this weekend?
M: No. I don't like shopping. (replies curtly and matter-of-factly, with no room for discussion)
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Before
W: (Sees a mega sale going on in one of her favourite boutique) Dear, I go in take a quick look, can?
M: Ok, I wait for you outside. (and smiles)

After
W: (Sees a mega sale going on in one of her favourite boutique) Dear, I go in take a quick look, can?
M: Don't want lah, why spend so much money? (and steers Woman away)
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Before
W: Dear, what shall we do tomorrow since it's Saturday?
M: Shall we go for a walk at East Coast and spend a nice day there?
W: Yes! (shrieks with excitement)

After
W: Shall we go for a walk at East Coast tomorrow since it's Saturday?
M: No. (outright reject with no reasons given)
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Thoughtful
(Man and Woman were eating out.)

Before
M: You want some before I finish up the drink? (offers Woman the last mouthful of drink)
W: Ok... (sips away in bliss)

After
M: (Finishes up last mouthful without offering)
W: Eh, why you didn't offer me the last mouthful? (indignant and hurt)
M: You never ask what. (What kind of fucking answer is that?!)
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Forgiving
(Woman was late for 10 mins and rushes to meet waiting Man)

Before
W: Sorry I'm late!
M: Never mind. (holds Woman's hand and continues the way)

After
W: Sorry I'm late!
M: Why you SO late?! (face turns black and starts walking, leaving Woman following behind)
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Before
M: Your mole / freckles / pimples / nails (whatever you can think of) look so cute!
W: Is it? (blushes with glee)

After
M: Your mole / freckles / pimples / nails (whatever you can think of) look ugly. Go and do something about it leh. (getting impatient)
W: Why last time you never mind all these, now you do? (shocked and hurt)
M: (No answer, just walk away)
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The above are not necessary personal accounts, but a compilation of common complaints made by many Women friends.

Why change after being together for so long / after marriage? Why can't all those tenderness and kindness be retained throughout the relationship?

The Woman in a Man's life must be someone he loves dearly, and cherishes very much to spend a whole lifetime together with. If a Man loves this Woman so much, why would he do / say things to hurt / anger her? If the Woman is the closest to him, why would the Man do all the insensitive things to her, but maintain a positive image in front of his friend and colleagues? Is the Woman not fit enough to warrant such respect and kindness?

Food for thought.